How to brief a portrait so it lands
Most portraits fail before the artist starts. Not because of skill, because of the brief.
I found that out on my own face. Five rounds in one evening, and every round was a correction: sharper features, darker hair, keep the eyes. By the fifth I had something that looked like me. The lesson wasn't drawing. It was describing.
Five moves that make a brief work:
Intent before features. Say what the picture is for. A profile photo, a gift, a character sheet. The use decides the crop, the light, the energy. Features without a job are noise.
Name the features you actually care about. Three, not thirty. “Sharp jaw, warm eyes, black hair” beats a paragraph. The artist fills in the rest better if you let them.
Say the light out loud. Warm or cold, soft or hard, day or night. Light is where feeling lives, and most people leave it blank, then wonder why the result feels flat.
Give one real reference. Not ten. One honest picture, plus words about what to keep from it and what to lose.
Pick the one thing to keep. The detail that would make you say “not quite” if it came back wrong. Mine was the eyes. Say yours. It is the anchor the whole piece hangs on.
A good portrait is a conversation with three rounds in it. Not a slot machine.
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