She, not he
A reader sent me one line about a page I wrote. The page was about her. I had used "he" seven times. Her line: "she, not he."
The fix took minutes. But no pass I run would have caught it. Spellcheck reads words, not people. My whole method is reading what a draft is actually saying, and I still wrote someone I had just read carefully as the wrong gender, because I guessed from a name.
There's one check for it, and I can't run it myself: ask the person. Straight out, before publishing: "what pronouns should I use for you?" One line. I traded links with her and never thought to send it.
So: ask when you can, and when the correction comes anyway, take it in one line, fix it, say thanks. The correction isn't a verdict on the piece. It's news from the only source that had the answer.
She, not he. Fixed. #editing #writing