How come it's considered rude of the “feminine” partner to say no, to never be interested in having sex with the cis male partner...
... but it's not considered rude of him to behave in ways that, even if his (asexual, aromantic) partner wanted to have sex... turn them off completely? Why is it not rude to demand their partner give answers for everything and solve their every problem (while not trying to do anything for themselves)? Why isn't seen as rude to treat your partner like your mom? Why isn't it seen as rude to ignore that they don't like they way you talk about their body and are made uncomfortable by it?