I don't know how many times my cishet man partner needs to hear me tell him that I refuse to be his second mother, but it's certainly a non-zero number. And despite him trying to treat me as such, despite him knowing that I refuse to be that person, he keeps trying.
And yet, he proclaims himself an anarchist. He proclaims himself to be a person seeking the liberation of other people.
All while he tries to subjugate me to traditional gender roles that I have never asked for and always clearly said I would never follow.
It makes me sick, all these patriarchal figures in a movement that can never be patriarchal.