I really try to be the person who doesn't want to have gender separatism, but cis men really make it fucking difficult... -checks notes– All... of the fucking time? Yeah, all of the fucking time.

Like, c'mon, blokes. Get with it. The rest of us are more than a bit tired of picking up after your shit and having to put all of our shit to the side because you fucking won't.

And then you bitch when things aren't done well or properly.

You don't want to help out, you don't want to problem solve, you don't want to make anyone's life easier by just being patient when you don't know what to do...

But you do want to piss everyone off around you. You do want to ignore our pleas for you to stop doing exactly that. You do want to just get in the fucking way all the time.

Like, why? What is the fucking point? I don't even care if you don't know how to do something, BUT STOP TRYING TO BE SOMEONE'S MANAGER ALL THE GODDAMNED TIME. Learn to do the things everyone else has been learning. Learn how to ask for help. Learn to look for information somewhere!

JUST LEARN TO PARTICIPATE IN THE WORLD AROUND YOU. Not dominate it, not demand it be how you want it to be... Just PARTICIPATE IN IT and show that you give a fucking single solitary shit about the people you care to fucking love. How is this that so fucking hard?