“If I get charged twice, then you'll just have to help me.”
Of course, I will have to help you. And it's not “help,” if we're honest. It's not you asking for advice on what to do and how to do it; it's you demanding that I do it for you because you refuse to learn how to do basic fucking things in a society where you have to interact with people.
“But you're better than me at that.”
Yeah, because as someone who was raised as a girl, I was forced to learn how to talk to people whether I wanted to or not. You, as a boy, got the privilege of having your mommy do everything for you when it was “too much.” Meanwhile, I was coerced into engaging with people and handling problems largely on my own. It didn't matter if talking to new people made me uncomfortable (and still does); it just mattered that I “learned to socialise.”
Meanwhile, no one even made you feel a sliver of discomfort. They did everything for you, to the point of detriment.
Asking for help is fine, wanting people to help is fine.
Demanding people do things for you because you refuse to learn how to do the basics, especially when you're demanding it of people who also feel social anxiety (but apparently, it's “not as bad” as you, for fuck's sake)? Fuck off.