If I'm honest, I have never felt that a cis man has ever truly loved me for me and has really only loved me for what they thought I could do for them. I don't particularly care what gender the person I'm in a relationship with is, but I can truthfully say that the 'love' I've received from cis men has rarely had anything to do with who I am and more about what they think they're owed for being in a relationship with someone.
And that's deeply sad on all accounts.