It is unsurprising to me that, even within anarchist circles which are full of cis men who claim to want liberation for all people, they simply cannot stop themselves from treating all feminine people around them as replacement mothers and caretakers.
Demanding so much and returning so little, always invading our space no matter what we say or how we say it... They perpetually ignore everything and claim that they've been wronged when they don't get what they want.
If we truly want liberation, these (among others) behaviours need to be revisited and dismantled.