Things that probably would never have pissed me off in the past piss me off more now than ever, and I think it's just because I've been existing in situations where someone expects me to fucking deal with their absurdity just because it's “how they are” with no consideration for anyone else in the room.
And, as per usual, this seems to be the most common among the cis men who expect everyone to follow their desires but do nothing at all to accommodate anyone else.