“Why don't you ask at work if anyone knows a pet sitter?” “I don't want my colleagues coming to our house.”
Wow, it's like those are the same thing. /s But also, if someone's offering to help, what's the problem?
“Why don't you ask at work if anyone knows a pet sitter?” “I don't want to.”
I... don't care. I do a lot of things I don't want to so that I can ensure our needs or whatever are being met. I do tons of things I don't want just to ensure I can stay in this stupid country. I do tons of things I don't want to so that our apartment works.
Like, sorry... when I'm already complaining that we're not even on equal levels of giving a shit... why are you behaving that way? (Also, don't you care about ~our~ cats?)
As a generality and a specificity for this situation: Cis men expect everything but give nothing.