2021/12/17 So you found the map, eh? Are you going to venture out to find the prize? To get to the place the map illustrates would be quite a journey in itself.
Anybody can see, the reason to collect all those experiences is not to have a collection of experiences, it is to have the experiences. Unfortunately, all to often the decision to have an experience is based on collecting rather than having it. This is not the same as going through drudgery in order to attain a goal, that isn't a decision to collect an experience. Obviously if you're too busy documenting the experience to experience it it would be a waste if you were hoping to experience it in the first place. Take care that you aren't taking the action to prove your worth, or because that's just what everyone does, or since you had the opportunity you didn't want to waste it even though you weren't actually that interested right then to be honest. When you live your life based around impressing other people, you should make sure that the person you are would impress you too. By all measures, but most importantly by character. Collecting experiences that will impress people you wouldn't want to be and aren't yourself will not be so engaging as experiences that fit with your likes. Most of the time anyway. Sometimes the unexpected happens, and sometimes you learn something that is very eye opening. Let the opportunities that don't fit with your needs pass you by. Have some time to have no experiences too, it's good for you.