Fantasy is Bad
Here are some articles, images I have organized.
You can usually find great things going from here too. For example robertwjensen has a lot of good articles on his website. The top posts of r/antipornography, r/pornismisogyny, etc would be good too.
I think I saw in an askreddit question where many people told the horrors of sex industry, etc. It linked to an AMA made by a pornstar or something. Then one by one. I just
Only then I knew about these things.
So naturally, as a curious person, I started learning more.
My reason for learning more about porn was always around how to make myself stop watching it. I didn’t feel anything about the woman in the video. For that matter I didn’t think about the man in the video either.
I will update as I find things.
Easy Peasy Method . Try this if it worked for you then you don’t need to read anything from here.
Your Brain Rebalanced is an amazing place.
Hello, everyone!
Anyways, I wanted to write about how I am amazing since I don’t watch porn, etc.
But the truth is recently only I relapsed.
Anyways that is not the most important thing.
I need to be truthful.
I started to be against porn first due to my own problems.
I think 5 – 6 years ago. Fuck I hate this arghhh.
Anyways only then I realized I have a porn problem.
I started searching.
I got into reddit that way.
So r/nofap is like one of the first sub reddits I followed.
I don’t know how it is now. But it was very helpful back then.
I learnt about rebootnation, yourbrainonporn, etc.
I will be quite honest. All the dopamine, serotonin, etc even though I understood it didn’t make any difference to me personally.
Anyways. I am ashamed to say I am still addicted to pornography.
But I used to watch video porn daily. Now it is monthly.
I only read porn comics[pornhwa], or erotica mainly.
I have started played porn games now though. [2D, 3D, anime]
I have stopped watching hentai though.
So, what I am saying is. I am not fully recovered. But still I think I have made huge improvements.
If you are disappointed that’s fine.
But I am confident I will overcome this.
I am slowly but surely improving the root cause of my addiction.
This is Fantasy Is Bad, a newsletter about Porn and its effects.
People say that porn is just a fantasy. I disagree with that.
I have been a consumer of porn for many years. Now I am someone who dislikes porn not just due to how it affected me personally. But also because I don’t like how it affects the society as whole.
Personally I think writing here can help my convictions.
I also would like to share all the things I have tried and collected.