Neko

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wii with Arthur

#Arthur

Lecture hall activity Wii ?? Demonstration gaming by Arthur (didn’t wear glasses)

Me and person next to me went to Arthur’s sessions so we know him Arthur seemed to want us to answer questions but we ignored him- the guy next to me kept chuckling, while I put my hair down and covered my face because I didn’t want to see him. I also kind of hid behind the boy. I felt embarrassed.

He didn’t pressurize us, but often walked to our part of the lecture hall (I mean- we sit at the middle), which I was happy about. and eventually the session ended. When ending, he was giving away masks, and someone in our row took one. We looked (kinda eagerly) at him but he didn’t give them to us. But it’s fine lol- it’s not about the mask but his presence anyways.

Later I had to dance with my class???

Idk

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annoying parents

#mum #dad Following me all around although me already travelled to japan Wanted to game in a shop and mum argued with shop keeper

I spent such a long time arguing with mum

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I’ve got a lot of dreams, but somehow I have been procrastinating for 4+ hours and I don’t really want to write them down despite them being fairly interesting.

frantic escape from 變態 w/ Charlotte

#CharlotteC We were students back in secondary school and today she’s bringing me to a new restaurant for lunch! On our way there, we walked past an art exhibition. Two teachers were by the glass pane at the entrance- C Po and I forgot the other. We briefly went inside to take a look but found it boring, so we exited and continued our way to the restaurant. (side note: suddenly recalled another dream where me charlotte heidi and some others, kaka? went together to a newly opened sushiro by our school. Interesting experience.)

We went there, it has a cafe de coral vibe but with fairwood orange deco. It was rather crowded, and I managed to take up two seats by combining with others’ tables. I let Charlotte take a look at the menu by the cashier first.

Later a weird old man came and took a seat diagonal to me, aka next to where I reserved a seat for Charlotte (we’re sitting opposite to each other). The old man began to have a conversation with me. Me, being a bit alert, answered him coldly and casually. And then I realised he was talking to himself initially, but because I answered him, he started to talk to me instead. I briefly looked at him and saw his face was very ugly. He’s holding a phone, probably just scrolling random websites. Or Threads in light mode. Idk man

I quickly became uncomfortable and wanted to leave. But he’s talking to me and if I leave I’m scared it would trigger him, because it occured to me that he was most likely actually mentally impaired and 變態. Cuz his face looked… nasty and 猥瑣.

Just at this time, Charlotte returned and wanted to take the seat to share what’s on the menu. I tried very hard to subtly signal to her to LEAVE, but she didn’t see my hand below the desk cuz she was talking and looking at my face. However, it seemed like the man noticed my warning to Charlotte.

I got very uneasy and anxious so I began to vigorously brainstorm what I could do. At this moment I recalled and noticed the man actually was riding a wheelchair when entering, so if I immediately run away, maybe we could escape.

Just when Charlotte was about to sit down, my mind was yelling QUICK RUNNNN so I vigorously grabbed her arm and ran out of the restaurant. Charlotte, despite slightly confused, cooperated and ran together with me (perhaps because usually I wouldn’t act so suddenly, and if I looked so concerned there’s probably a good cause). I filled her in with the reason as we were running. She immediately suggested an alternative route for escaping, as the man would probably know if we used the same route as when we arrived. I followed her and took the alternative route, which was actually circling to the other side of the restaurant. However I realised this side was actually had the wheelchair friendly exit, and the walls were all glass panes. We might get spotted very easily. At this point my heart rate irl shot up… so tense!!! But there was no time for us to think! We sprinted past the area and arrived at a “crossroad” on this podium level. I was recalling why I felt like I had seen this man before in another dream, and found out I had a very similar dream before, at the same dream restaurant, but the man wasn’t on wheelchair, so I couldn’t escape and he captured me, and I didn’t know the ending of the dream. So basically another nightmare. As I was sprinting and thinking about it, Charlotte yelled go to 6/F! And she took a turn at the crossroad, but as I was running a little bit behind, when I took the same turn, I couldn’t see her. She’s too quick. I was rather desperate and very scared if the man would arrive anytime soon (I didn’t dare to turn my head to check). I saw a small escalator and leapt on it, despite thinking it only would reach 2/F. When I was frantically trying to run up the stairs, I heard a very familar and nostalgic noise. It was the flapping sound of my canvas wings. (supple info: I was very into the idea of flying when I was in primary school, so I spent an entire year designing a pair of wings for me to wear to fly. I think it was inspired by how to train your dragon, lol. I was looking closely to how airplane wings work during takeoff and landing whenever I go travel. My design looked like those flying suits people wear/ flying squirrels. Oh but usually in old dreams I used to had when I was young, I don’t need equipment to be able to fly.)

I was delighted and immediately flap my wings to get up to around the 6/F, which was apparently a part of a radio tower. I yelled to ask if Charlotte was around. I heard her reply and noticed she’s climbing up. I grabbed her hand and pulled her up to my spot/ the side of the tower thing. We sensed that the bad guy was coming soon, and school’s just across the street, opposite to us. As lunch time was almost ending and we didn’t really wanna eat around anymore, I decided to fly across. I invited Charlotte to hold my body or hold my legs so we could glide across. I reckon it would be quite heavy but might probably work, so I made that suggestion ^ Charlotte was worried if she’s gonna drag me down. So I decided to glide solo to test out my strength/ power to use the wings first, and return to collect her. I jumped off. As I almost hit the ground, I adjusted the wings and got momentum to glide back up. Although my gliding skills was a bit rusty, I could at least make it function. I glided back, and saw the old man was slowly making his way up the tower. On the other hand, I had an eerie feeling about the school, as returning to school felt equally bad as getting caught by the man, somehow. I felt like we would be imprisoned inside with lots of rules and obligations.

So I was talking to Charlotte about it, when the dream ended.

As I mentioned there was other dreams too but nah I didn’t feel like writing them and now they’re gone.

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pokemon party w friends; ummm Arthur’s affair *cough *

#arthur #PBLmate

At first I was heading to an office room to take something/ meet with someone

But later me and my pbl mates (and arthur) were watching a pokemon movie. Arthur was on my right. We were all on a bed / people further away from me were on big individual sofas, chilling. During the whole dream I really wanted to pee (because I fell asleep before going to the toilet irl) But I was right next to Arthur.. I was a bit worried if my spot next to Arthur would get taken if I went to toilet and return afterwards. So I stayed in bed. I began to burrow into his shoulder for more closeness. He didn’t flinch as I think we were both kind accustomed to being this close to each other. (in the dream) I was burrowing into his neck again when he received a phone call. It was from his wife. He’s updating his wife that everything’s fine and the party’s still going on and not ending anytime soon. When he’s on the phone I was sticking my face to his, and I could hear what the opposite side was talking. (Umm but now it felt like a call from his friend instead), she’s saying how his SCM was well trained and looking very smexy. I thought they’re talking about levator scapulae so I was touching that instead. Arthur signalled and whispered to me, it’s this one, while loosening the collar to expose his neck more to point at it and let me touch it.

As I was touching it, Arthur looked a bit flustered but tried to hold back and speak normally on his call. I found it fun so I tried to whine a bit by his ear. After like two to three sentences he ended the call. We were cuddling each other again. I feel so blessed and in love. The tension was growing stronger, but so was my urge to pee. We gazed at each other and the vibe was getting more and more intimate. Then I thought maybe this would be enough for me to keep my spot when I return from toilet, so I got up and left to pee.

I peed quickly and got back to my spot. Nobody has taken up my spot when I was away. I felt relieved and happy.

After the pokemon movie had ended, all of us were walking to the mtr station. We were sitting on the seats on the concourse to wait for the train. I was sitting next to Arthur on my right again, and another PBL mate (male) on my left. We were all wearing shorts. I held hands with Arthur firmly. I invited him to touch my thighs lol.

Yayayayayayayayayy (there’s another dream but I forgot after writing all this! This one feels pretty good so yeeahah it’s fine if I forgot the other one i guess)

probably dreamt it because I had a crush on Rika aka チリ in pokemon horizons and I binge watched like 30 episodes yesterday aaaaaaawoooogaaaa

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hiding from customers

I’m a shop assistant at a stationery shop. Some people were trying to chase after me I was very scared (… oh maybe theyre just trying to ask me on shopping stuff) Anyways luckily another assistant came to deal with them, while I got to sneak away and also take a look at different stationery/ random items like furry bags, backpacks, keychains assessories etc. while feeling still pretty scared. (damn felt like me pushing yuki to help me with the booth promotion)

dying Wattrel, Nobita caught Magikarp, revenged on 小夫

In this dream I was just an observer and not “participating / influencing the story”. So Doraemon and Nobita went on a train ride. Doraemon’s pokemon, Wattrel, died. (Adult sized but I don’t think it has evolved to be a kilowattrel yet though) Doraemon put it on a wire at the train station. Nobita actually had a smaller wattrel, I think it was the kid of the dead wattrel. But Nobita thought it was dying as well (it just fainted) so he put it on the wire by the side of the dead one. I was like bro it ain’t dead yet, but I was just observing the dream taking place so I couldn’t really signal it to him The wattrel shed a tear as they were about to ride the train and leave this station.

Later the wattrel tried its best and flew to chase the train.

Later Nobita got off the train and saw 小夫 (i forgot his eng name) by the river, fishing. Nobita caught a Magikarp by his bare hands. And then Nobita got an idea so he caught another Magikarp. Everyone was cheering for Nobita. He acted as if the Magikarp would be tasty, he wanted to munch on it, but decided to give it to 小夫 instead. 小夫 took a bite, and had a complicated look. (The 2nd magikarp was a styrofoam toy/ fish bait.) but since everyone’s cheering and you’re probably not supposed to eat pokemons anyways, so he pretended nothing had happened. And I felt happy for Nobita because he punished his bully.

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“broken static screen”

Turned out I didn’t connect my laptop to power After connecting it my external screen static was gone and it was fixed perfectly Mum kinda laughed at me, we laughed together

fried pork bento for Adrian

#mum #dad #uni Travels I got a bento for Adrian But he’s pretty quick in walking back to his dorm So I had to walk quickly to chase but he’s just too quick (he didn’t know I had gotten a bento for him though) Mum and dad were following me to ask me what I was doing I haven’t gave him his bento yet

Travelling w friends/ classmates, chocolatier

#Ivan #PBLmate Sharon A. Y., Ernest, Matthew #cecilia ’s grandma (cut croissant) #caitlyn

Friends travelling together I was a bit hungry while Caitlyn couldn’t finish her meal (chocolate drink), so I finished it up. When we were leaving The serving/ return tray counter, gave me a free set of milk+ chocolate croissant set, as she apologise for “Poor chocolate made”

Other than this set I got two more croissants too. C’s grandma came and seemingly wanted to eat. Me, thinking I couldn’t finish them all anyways, welcomed her and she immediately started cutting croissants as if they were all hers. I was slight slightly surprised but didn’t mind. The grandma cut them very quuckly and well, and I recalled they operate a bakery shop (in the dream). She cut the two horns, and then cut the middle, to show me what fillings were inside. One is a very rich dense chocolate, another has cream inside. Another one feels like matcha. I shared the croissants with her.

I saw the receipt also said I was full year free customer as well.

Anyways they look delicious

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Murder

There was a kid (twins), whose family owned a ship. One of them invited a friend to come. The friend secretly climbed and on board the ship at night without them knowing, before the actual invitation day. He got on in a place with security mechanisms. A robot chopped off his head. Then there was an automatic dispenser system on the ship, where they release the kid’s body along with a lot of fish snacks and lure in order to facilitate the body being broken down and eaten by fishes, so that the body would be gone. Actually the security system was for assassinating the other twin, with a seemingly valid reason of him being sneaky and thought he would be an intruder instead and auto killed sus people.

classmate became eng teacher

#secschool #pblmate Setting is like on an aircraft, I’m on the middle columns. Watching Pokemon Horizons on iPad, and started to play static noises instead. I realised it was a bit too loud as I was using the speaker, so I turned it down to not affect others. I was a bit embarrassed because I wasn’t aware of that when I was watching the show.

Later the teacher came for class. It was actually Serene, teaching English. Meanwhile our classmates and I were actually in the same year as her (still secondary school in dream) but she’s already employed by the school. I was like wow how come Anyways we started checking and marking our worksheets (marked but we needed to listen for the correct answer for questions we got wrong)

Also the setting/ room slowly got warped into a high school classroom.

I was on a single table, vs others with two tables together. The classmate in front of me was also on a single table. I saw her moving her table backwards a little bit, so I wanted to move my table with her. But as I was moving to the front, she moved the table a bit sideways to join a double table. I was slightly shocked and ngl a little bit sad, lol And then Audrey came and sit on my another side. We chatted and I kind of did a show and tell with my pencil case. It was cute and in pastel green (hmm not gonna buy this colour irl probably). Yay! We were checking a section of the worksheet which I left it blank. I recalled it was actually because I got to school late, so I missed it, but it was fine. I wasn’t too bothered by it. The classmate who moved away joined us. So now we are sitting in a triple manner. Yay!

Later Serene started to chit chat with the class instead of teaching new stuff. She asked if any of us have part time jobs. Around 6 out of 35? Students raised their hands. She went around and asked everyone. Emma and her friend were tutoring Spanish, interesting.

Narita airport harbour view

#arthur #T (I think there was Ming and Urshmar) #mum Walking out of the observation deck thing but by the harbour, I was mesmerised by how BLUE the sky and the water were. The sky was in a brilliant bright royal blue with absolutely no clouds. The water was shimmering and in a darker shade of navy blue. I couldn’t take my eyes off the beautiful scene.

Following me were Arthur and a few others, and my mum. We were finding a spot to take a rest as the deck was kinda crowded with mainland tourists.

Mum told me to look at the scenery and not to be on my phone. She urged me to go down one step and be closer to the water. Despite knowing how to swim, I was scared as I was just wearing casual wear. And I’m not sure if the water would be safe enough. i didn’t know how deep the water is, and there wasn’t any lifeguards nor buoys. She said, it would be fine, you won’t fall over, trust me. (oh but my mum doesn’t know how to swim, bruh how are you sure it would be fine I can’t trust you) So I stepped one step down and I’m slightly touching the water. It was pretty fun. Finally I initiated to take a selfie together, mainly because I wanted a photo in which Arthur was with me. Took a few tries. Idk how it turned out. And in the dream I got to learn that they’re all living in the same block of building, and

… i got distracted and forgot what I was gonna type

Anyways opposite across the harbour was west kowloon & kai tak, and I realised Narita airport was closer than I expected ! Lol

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Previous suicide attempt (dream)

#ivan

I was on a school tour with uni people. We were queuing up to perform as part of an assessment for a sports class during the tour. Before assessing we have to fill in a form about our personal data. I was the last in queue. So the coach asked me to perform... first! Before performing, he asked me to come forward to double check my personal information. Other people also crowded around slightly to have a peek, because they were curious about what I wrote inside. The coach read aloud and pointed at different parts of the form as he was repeating it for me. The first blank was whether I was receiving psychologic/ psychiatric services. And how many sessions have I done. I answered honestly. The second one... He verbally repeated it... Previous suicide attempts. In the dream I wrote about one. About how I was standing by the edge of a building/ bridge at midnight and eventually someone (Ivan) spotted me and called for rescue. The rescuer took me away from the spot and I didn't die. (But in real life... I don't think I have really attempted it/any... idk. The emotions I felt while reading and visualising the paragraph felt pretty real though. Intense agony and hopelessness. I wish I could give a hug to that little me, but I wasn't strong enough anyways)

I was a bit embarrassed because now people would think I look different from how I had presented myself in front of them before. It was as if I lied. I felt guilty for lying but I had to lie or else I would look different from the mentally healthy crowd. And get myself alienated. So I don't want to get alienated because of having weird negative vibes, but being with people that couldn't resonate with me because I didn't want to share how I was truly feeling, is me facilitating my own alienation. Sarcastic.

I think people were kinda shocked but didn't really show it as in looking at me.

Later I started to perform. It was something like a ballet, or ice skating. I had to rotate myself and also do some stretching actions.

They were watching with respect, I think.

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very annoying mum always at my back

#mum In this dream I have a little bro and mum and also a schoolmate Mum liked to follow me EVERYWHERE i wanted to find new rooms to hide but she just always found me im so so so annoyed oh my god

I wanted to team up with little bro and schoolmate to hide from her but little bro liked to stick to mum bruh

So annoying !!!! Onl9… maybe let’s rename it to be ln9 Bruh

scary people outside home

#uni #secschool #dad

More and more strangers were crowding/ walk by my home some people that looked like young construction workers went in my home when mum didnt unlock the ftont door, just to put down random items (that mum had left before) Mum forbade me to go out, and I am scared too. Dad was also forbidding me to go.

More and more crowds were outside, and wearing weird clothings. Colourful vibrant exotic clothings, As if a 百鬼夜行 was going on. One tried to enter again. I yell at them to try to make them go away. He was just trying to return something Mum had dropped before. I thought it was lying, so I continued to try to shoo him away, but Mum told me she really had dropped this before so it was real.

I could also see Ashley and Audrey via the door hole, along with other adults. And a creepy clown. They all came from the corridor (idk where exactly because the door hole had a limited view angle), and left from another small door (not there irl) by the emergency staircase. It was really like a parade rather than staying in front of my door. And they looked happy. (happily chaotic evil???)

Idk anyways because I needed to leave for whatever reason (maybe I needed to go to school), I had to change clothes. Mum was giving unsolicited advice again, while Dad was giving me more clothes to choose from, which was fueling Mum's points and ideas. Anyways I chose a relatively original outfit despite Mum saying it was ugly and bad.

I checked the outside situation again, and there were still a lot of people outside. But looking at all the stickers and encouraging words people have left for me/ I have written myself on my bedroom door, I thought it was time to actually try to go out despite it looking scary.

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swimming, massaging friend n got dumped

#PBLmate Swimming, six people in total including me. One pair of couple (uni friends), two quiet introverted boys, me and Human. Somehow we wanted to play something more wild and spicy. So we paired ourselves up. At the entrance of different pools you are required to walk past a gate again, which detects your saliva. The couple used the man’s (and the girl would kiss the man and get his saliva in order to open the gate for herself too) I decided to do that for both of us (me and Human) But because we weren’t as familiar to that level, the kiss doesn’t work so I just left some saliva on the gate for her to come in.

The quiet boys left.

And I gave her a massage at the bottom. I didn’t penetrate the though. Just a massage. She looked relaxed and a bit aroused, meanwhile I was aroused too and making noises by her ear, which hopefully would “trigger” her more. When it was almost time to leave, I started to play with her right nipple with my tongue. She was apparently more aroused by this. I felt quite proud of myself lol When it was ending I asked for a kiss again because she probably needs it anyways for exiting the gate, not sure As soon as we kiss, I tried to use my tongue to reach into her mouth, although my tongue was dry. but she complained of my breath smell. She said it was itchy and felt fermented. She pushed me away and declared/ yelled she wouldn’t be with me again and anymore! And she walked away angrily. I felt defeated but didn’t hold her back because I was guilty for my breath. Her last sentence is she would reconsider me. So it was not too bad. But I was sad. Maybe just good massaging wasn’t enough to hold a person. (reminded me of my dad’s terrible rotting breath. Nah.)

sus tree man around emperor house

#mum #dad (Now that I revisited the tag I forgot why I added my parents here. Maybe the emperor and wife are mum and dad but as I was writing I forgot)

The emperor’s friend/ wife needs help. He dialed his dad to come to “南門” (south door) His dad- big big emperor came and needs to kow tow and worship from the entrance as a tradition. But usually emperors arrive at big big entrances instead of this small “south door”, so it was wrong but he still kow tow, but the things he pray for had changed into hoping ghosts from south door wouldn’t harm them etc.

Later we saw a sus man at the bushes outside our entrance. He was wearing a lot of leaves, like those PUBG camouflage. But he was “sneakily” but kind of obviously hopping and approaching our entrance. I got scared and told everyone to go inside quickly. Emperor noticed. He hinted his father to retreat. Emperor’s pal/ wife follows the emperor, and didn’t say anything. Emperor’s father was oblivious and still praying. Anyways the sus tree guy was getting closer and closer so we all went back into the house, emperor dragged his dad in too. Well the house wall was made of glass but it’s better than nothing… still very fragile and unsafe. We got blinds on the glass walls though… still unideal.

While walking in the corridor someome told me a historical story/ myth in the house: a little girl got raped by … numbers, erm like if 12345610000000 , then every time there is a calculation step, the person got thrusted once by the perpetrator.

Somehow in that every calculation step there was also a prize giving ceremony going on for selected pokemon trainers out there. (They were selected based on calculation results, they converted the numbers into different codes and figure out what codes correspond to what trainer and pokemon. And somehow I was one of them for my generation, along with Roy (from pokemon horizons), I think. There was one more pokemon who won in our gen, I think it was Kuwassu (i forgot the English name- the water duck starter in scarlet violet). However before the photo had taken it wasn’t ready yet and wasn’t even on scene. After taking the pic it got ready and got on. It felt very sad and disappointed. (There’s also no retaking of photos) I felt pity for it and comforted it. (Oh reminded me of not being in the photo for club group photos for school magazine for two years… because I was late by just a bit. I felt equally down back then.)

aeon shopping, jpy exchange rate, hotel delivery arrangement

At Japan. I found something cool (useless kids sticker toy) in aeon I saw the prices and it was originally like 1400 yen on the tag on the hook, but on the toy there was a hkd label which says 115 hkd I thought it would be significantly cheaper in jpy, and since we were at japan, could we pay in jpy? I turned around and asked a friend nearby. He was actually still choosing stuff to buy. He said that’s a smart idea, maybe I should ask the cashier and he would like to know too. Meanwhile I was guessing maybe it’s just I couldn’t do tax refund if I pay in jpy, but it would still be cheaper than paying in hkd.

I went to the counter and saw my mum at it. Dad slightly further away, waiting by the side at the back as usual.

It was actually just a bag of items mum bought, but she requested aeon to deliver directly to the hotel since the bag was too big, but she hasn’t received it yet, and she was mad. And she’s gonna complain to the cashier.

Meanwhile I started to brainstorm: maybe they delivered to the wrong locker for the wrong room because we swapped rooms a few days in And then I quickly mentally planned, maybe she can ask the cashier for a note/ receipt of them shipping successfully to whatever locker, as a proof, and then we go to the hotel, explain to them about the wrong locker situation and get the items.

Anyways Mum started to communicate with them with broken English, she sounded mad. I just felt Mum was being stupid and unreasonable. The cashier asked her if she was the one who deliver to room 22xx. By this time I already knew it was really a wrong delivery because our old hotel room was 22xx while our updated new one was 16xx. But mum obviously hadn’t realised that, she was just head on and about to argue anything. I was fed up by this ineffective communication from her so I just went to the cashier and explained the thing in like two sentences. Actually as I was explaining, the cashier already asked me if I wanted a proof/ receipt for the hotel, so I immediately said yes, and the issue was solved. Mum exclaimed this was solved so quickly! She expected this would take much more time! I was too fed up so I didn’t explain to her. I just knew it was because she was approaching people to release her anger, argue her way out and figure out who is in the wrong and prove herself right, instead of providing ideas and discussing together, reaching consensus and solving things together (especially when these things were just oudated info and no one had actually did anything real bad)

It’s just effective communication! Just listen!

Later (quickly), the cashier also offered a big bag and a circular box because she bought something new and maybe she wanted to put this into the bag, which the later could be used outside of the delivered items bag to provide more support (like double bags u know)

Mum initially was very unhappily surprised by why the fuck we wanted such a big bag, instead of listening to the cashier. So I explained to her.

So she “wow…” in a frowning voice. Her appreciation sounds like disapproval, and the cashier seemed shocked.

I asked her immediately why she’d do that, and she claimed she was appreciative! And argued her “wow…” is happy tone. Me and dad tried to educate mum about it, but she brushed us off. Bruh again (reminded me of that meal with relatives and mum tried to praise an item being good, but started off with a frowning tone and face and sentence. And that worried her sis lol and then dad was explaining Mum’s always like this – mum’s sis has GAD and dad had a very jumpy and easily frightened nature……….)

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